Monday, January 23, 2012

Kiss Of Death .. or so we thought -

We got LeAnna an aquarium for Christmas, with the promise of her very own SHARKS!   They are "hopefully" coming to live with us tomorrow!   We had the tank set up by a "fish guy" who gave us a little "shark 101" ... and after purchasing (upon his advice) 4 test fish ... we have two still with us!   The first one to go was Angel (appropriately named) because she earned her wings on day 2!


   The other three were doing great ... until ... last week, one went missing (aka Brucey) ... Brucey was rather small compared to his "friend" Wally, who is a larger kissing fish (kiss of death!  So I blamed him for) ... for a week now, Brucey has been no where to be found ... so one would be led to believe that "someone ate their friend for food"!  We looked everyday, several times a day for Brucey - but to no avail ... I was really puzzled and we all came to the conclusion that Wally (biggest fish in the tank) ate Brucey!   We had actually settled to this over the weekend ... I went to the tank several times, looked very closely at Wally, and to me he just appeared larger all of a sudden!   All the more reason to believe the horrible thing he had done! ... well, LeAnna had a friend over to play after church yesterday, and while playing, Ms. Vovie discovered a rock (so she thought) laying in between the tank and the couch ... we looked closer ... IT WAS BRUCEY!!!   ON THE FLOOR ... OUTSIDE OF THE TANK!!!   WHAT?!?!?!? 

Ok, how does this happen?!   I'm so confused ... huge tank, lid always closed except for feeding time ... HOW?!?!   I've since spoke with several fish owners who have all said, "he jumped out of the tank" ... WHAT?!   Wouldn't I have seen that?   A fish jumping OUT of the tank (again, which is only opened while feeding for just a few short seconds) ... oh well ... there he lay in all his glory!   Poor Brucey ... plunged to his death!   At least he didn't get eaten ... at least one mystery solved ... now to only wonder "when" he jumped!

Oh what fun!   Now, on to the sharks ... anticipating their arrival ... I'll post pics once they are here.

Mysterious Day,
Tammy

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Principal's List ...


LeAnna was honored yesterday for making Principal's list for this last semester.  She struggled a bit in Math but brought her grades up from a B to an A ... which gave her straight A's ... She worked so hard at it ... VERY proud of her!!!    And was glad I got to attend the presentation.  Way to go Lucy Lu!!!!




I feel it is VERY important to praise our kids when they do good!   And when they don't do so good, praise them for their effort and encourage to do better.   A child's self esteem can be damaged severely at this age and that damage will follow them through out their life time ... I've seen many adults that do not believe in themselves, have very low self esteem, and feel they can't reach beyond ... a LARGE percentage of this is from childhood.  I encourage you to be an encourager today!!   Not just to children, but to adults ... damage is done for them, but YOU could make a difference in their outlook today!

"Everybody is a genius.  But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."      ~ Albert Einstein
Happy Day,
Tammy

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Home Made Insanity Bars...AKA - Sin!

Found this ... HAD to try ... not sure what it's called ... but "Home Made Insanity or SIN" comes to mind!   And I'm probably insane for making it!  

However ... it's a MUST try!   Oh MY GoodNESS!!!!

I found several variations on line ... but I decided to do my own thing:

First I made a "from scratch" chocolate chip cookie dough.  Pressed it into a greased Pyrex (9x13).

(I did this before I thought about taking pics to share this recipe.)

Then ... I used an entire package of DOUBLE STUFFED Oreos!   Yep! ... layered them on top of the cookie dough.


Then I used Duncan Hines Decadent Triple Chocolate Brownie Mix - mix according to box and pour on top of Oreos - spread evenly and let it ooze down in between the Oreos!   AAAHHHHH!!!!!!




Then I baked (in a preheated) 350 degree oven for 40 minutes.   It's going to look a little undone in the middle and maybe a little too done on the edges - but that's okay.  I kept mine in the dish overnight and cut into bars this morning!  


AAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!   I'm telling you it's INSANE!

Insanity Bars ... You should try!

Oh Yeah, It's Going To Be A HAPPY DAY!
Tammy

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Some Days Are Like, Just So Random (said in my 80's valley girl voice) ...

Okay ...  so ...  my computer crashed ... and well ... thank God my hard drive was recoverable ... computer was questionable, but I think it's going to pull through too!  It happened last Thursday morning, a day when I thought "what else" ... let's just say it was the icing on my cake!  Which actually a piece of cake might have helped!  ... but oh well ... hopefully my computer will be up and running this evening.

Went to the mountains this weekend ...  it was a much needed time to relax and recoup from the busy holidays.  Took an extra day off yesterday ... SO glad I did ... I was able to take down the Christmas decor, put it away, clean, and get the house back to somewhat semi-normal.  LOVE Christmas decor, but when it's time to take it down, I think it's the loneliest my house looks all year!  It makes me want to go buy a table arrangement or something!  Anything, to make it not look so bla.  I'm a little embarrassed that the tree didn't come down until January 16th!   YIKES!   That's CRAZY ... but my life is crazy - so I guess it goes hand in hand - lol!

Once my computer is up and running, I'll post some pics from the holidays ... had my annual cookie exchange in December and I'm excited to post pics about it.   We always have so much fun, and this year was no exception!   So, pics soon!

Crazy weather in January ... Tornadic activity in mid-January?!   Really?   60 degrees this morning?  Really?! 

Random thoughts for this post I know .... but I'm random at times ...

happy Random day,
Tammy

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Power Of The Spoken Word ...Or Not

The power of the spoken word ... ever think about it?  We speak so many of them ... all day long ... words, words, words ... some, mean SO much, some are probably better off unspoken.

Ever get those urges to speak to someone, something of meaning ... it's almost like you will burst if you don't get to that person and say it.  If it's a positive thing, more than likely it's meant for you to say it.   Don't hold it in .. say it ...

That person could be waiting, praying ... for someone to speak special words of encouragement ...

words of hope ...

words of help ...

and ... YOU could be that someone ... today.

So, that unction you feel to speak words today ... to someone ...

do it ...

Just do it.

Because more than likely, that person is going to say back to you ... "I was waiting for that".

The POWER of the Spoken Word ...

I learned the hard way, a long time ago NOT to hold it, but to speak it when I feel it ...

We are His hands, His feet, His hugs, His tangible, His Spoken Words.

Just do it!

Happy  Day, Tammy

Monday, January 9, 2012

Principal's List ...

Such a proud Mom!!!  LeAnna got her report card today and we were all a little anxious about her math grade ... she had some trouble this last semester ... but she worked really hard at it ... and ... all A's!!!!   Yea!  So proud of her!   She was excited to say the least!   I was able to take off a little early and pick her up from school.   We went to Tequila's for an after school snack (which ended up being dinner) and then to Justice for some new lip gloss!  She was a happy camper!  She proved to herself that her efforts paid off!   Way to go Lucy Lou!

I think Nate and I feel like we got A's too!  lol ... gotta love homework!  Whew!

happy day ... Tammy

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Strolling The Lane of Sweet Memories ...

Today was Mom's 70th birthday and she decided she wanted to spend it in Celina, Tennessee where she was born and raised ...   So, that's what we did!


There were 12 family members that went, and from the beginning, breakfast at Cracker Barrel in Nashville ... until the very end, dinner at Long Horn Steak House in Cookeville, the conversation pretty much consisted of nothing but memories.   I discovered new things today,  and there were other family members that learned things they never knew as well.  On the way there, Judy (mom's sister), gave her a box of memories, treasures if you will, that she slowly went through during our ride to Celina.  There were pictures, small hand made treasures from Mama Neely (mom's mom), and poems written by Mama Neely.  One poem was written for mom on her birthday years ago, but for her to read it today ... wow!   Special, sweet words from Mama Neely, blessing my mom on her special day ... no dry eyes in the van!  The first place we went was where mom went to school.   The old elementary school had been torn down ... all that remained was the high school that she attended.  Memories flowed out of Nana as she spoke of the tree in the yard, the playground around to the side, gazing out the window at the surroundings that we actually saw with her as we turned around and she pointed things out ... coming out of these front doors ...
This was the very spot where Nana was born ... on the coldest day of the year, 15 BELOW zero!  The house is gone now, but this is where it stood. And she is standing in the vicinity of where the bedroom was where she was born.


This is looking out over what "was" the backyard ...  The state came through and purchased 3 acres of land from the family to put in a highway ... the memories were vibrant for Nana, but it made it more difficult for LeAnna and I to imagine.  They cut into the property right beside where the house stood, and went down 80 feet to create this huge hole right in the middle of the property to make room for the new highway.

It was difficult for Nana to imagine that the very place where she ran through the backyard over to these trees was now a huge hole!  However, where the tree line now begins and beyond is the remaining 62 acres left.  Nana had a VERY large backyard!  =0)


The family stood in a circle about where the house stood, held hands, and prayed a special birthday prayer of thanksgiving for Nana ... a very special moment.

LeAnna wanted so bad to play where Nana once played ... when we were leaving the property she told us that she had gone to the van and found a piece of paper, wrote a note on it about being at Nana's house and then went and buried it in the dirt.   She made her own special memory.


We went down the "new hill" that was created and crossed over to the once attached "back yard" ... and walked out on some of the 62 acres.


We all listened as Nana told story after story of playing and working on the property.


Our next stop was down the street to Mamie's house (Nana's grandmother).  This was a tree that stood beside the front of Mamie's house before it burned to the ground a few years ago.  LeAnna said she wanted to "touch the tree that Nana touched so many years ago" ... she really got into this "all about Nana" day.


LeAnna was so into it that at one point she said she was sad, because she wanted to see everything just like Nana did when she was little.  Here's LeAnna walking the back yard of Mamie's house.  Nana told us of how she remembers stealing eggs from the chickens, taking them to the store and selling them for candy, then she would go back behind these trees and hide and eat her candy!  She also remembers feeling really guilty about it, confessing it, and getting in trouble for it!



We ended the day with dinner at Long Horn Steak House in Cookeville before heading back home.  It was definitely a day to remember ... and I know beyond the shadow of a doubt a day we will never forget!

Happy 70th Birthday Nana!